Guy 1. I’ve liked this guy for over 5 years and he knows it and we’re still best bros and all but he’s more-or-less straight and in a committed relationship with someone else right now. I really think he’s my “soul mate”, but I really doubt I’m his.

Guy 2. Another one of my best friends, I haven’t known him long, but he’s really nice and I guess you could say submissive? He’s the type to apologize frantically over anything and go to great lengths not to offend someone. I’m honestly too scared to actually even try to date him because I do not want a serious relationship and all I can think about is how much he’d be hurt when his first relationship ended. I really don’t want to hurt him…

Guy 3. One of my sister’s friends and he’s probably about 4 years older than me. He’s scruffy, a lot taller, and basically all around more masculine. I usually am not in the slightest attracted to people like him, but he’s just so insanely nice and super friendly and all that stuff. And I was told by my sister that he actually did/does (not sure?) like me, but that’s when he thought I was a girl. And honestly, people mistake me for a girl all the time and it’s not really a big deal, but it kind of is when some guy I like likes me but he’s straight and just thought I was a girl…

He is also in a serious relationship.

Well tumblr, this is my love life problem.